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02/16/2004 Archived Entry: "I've been doing a little thinking about romance"
This will all sound probably just this side of arrogant, but I should probably try and type this up and figure it out anyways:
I've noticed a trend. All the people I like I need to feel that they'd understand me. Just fundamental understanding and empathizing is so important.
It's probably why I have so few crushes in the first place.
But it's really the deciding factor. Along with that I need to feel like I'm not just some random person.
Maybe I've always considered myself special and if others can't see that, then they're not worth the romantic interest.
And now these guys think I'm special. One in particular is showing the most interest and very much out of the blue sort of interest too. Supposedly he doesn't usually get crushes either, but he got one on me.
And I don't really know what to do. I want to honestly give him a chance. But then I worry, what would we talk about? I hope we can talk.
Maybe it all just takes time.
Tuesday, February 17, 2004
Sometimes it definitely does take time. But you shouldn't be instantly repulsed. :D
And this is not arrogant. It's called "self-respect". You have the right to be valued for who you are. That's what makes love so special.
*nebulous words blah blah blah*
12:53 AM: shades_children site!
Tuesday, February 17, 2004
how come esther can say exactly what i want to say except better :D
"And this is not arrogant. It's called "self-respect". You have the right to be valued for who you are. That's what makes love so special."
it's not like afton and i started liking eachother right when we met eachother. we got together because we just started talking, and talking...and well talking. we got to know eachother. it's what people do, not random "oooo i like him, let's date!" if they do that then...they're stupid. just talk with him, if romantic heart strings become pulled then so be it. i wasn't expecting afton and i to start dating. i guess i want to say is if you want to give him a chance, then just be yourself and talk with him. if you feel something special develop then act on it.
love (in a strictly friendly manner),
the dan-poo
09:02 AM: mail! dan-poo site!
Wednesday, February 18, 2004
You're very special.
10:34 AM: some guy
Wednesday, February 18, 2004
You just gotta follow your heart. Go with the one you think is best for you. You can't make the other person happy unless you yourself are. If the ones you don't choose cry, then why would you want to be with them. They are only being selfish for not wishing you the best.
02:24 PM: Some other person
Wednesday, February 18, 2004
Yes. Erin is very...special. nyaah. Someone had to say it at one point. :-P
09:59 PM: Liz
Thursday, February 19, 2004
I know you're refering to short bus special!! *waves fist*
In responce to the other two comments....um. *scratches head* yes? *doesn't know what to say but figures I should say something*
09:41 AM: Me site!
Thursday, February 19, 2004
pttlb :-P *wags tongue*
07:44 PM: Liz
